30 unwritten rules you should remember

1

稍微一亲近就口无遮拦的毛病必须改

The habit of opening one's mouth at the slightest intimation

must be changed


2

把“你听懂了没”换成“我讲明白了没”

Replace "do you understand"

with "do I understand?"


3

别人给你发消息一定要回

哪怕一个表情,一个标点

不回消息不是高冷,是没教养

Be sure to reply to people

who send you messages

Even one expression,

one punctuation

Not to return the message is not cold, is not educated


4

不要试着用自己的秘密去交换一个朋友

Don't try to trade your secret

for a friend


5

道不同,不相为谋

It's different. No common goal,

no common cause to cooperate


6

人前不应该说的话,背后也别说

Don't say behind your back

what you shouldn't say in front of others


7

用“谢谢你”代替“谢谢”

虽然只是多了一个字,但是诚恳很多很多

Use "thank you" instead of "thank you", although it is just one more word, but a lot more sincere



8

一个女生在男生堆里受欢迎,说明不了什么,如果在女生堆里玩的开,那是真厉害

If a girl is popular among boys, it doesn't mean anything. If she is popular among girls, is it really cool


9

别人在睡觉的时候要懂得安静

Be quiet while others are sleeping


10

别人拿手机给你看照片的时候,你好好看着就行,不要手贱滑下一张

When someone shows you a picture on their phone,

just look at it

Don't slide it down


11

有两种人值得信任:

二话不说借你钱的人,信守承诺还你钱的人

here are two kinds of people

you can trust:

He who lends you money without saying a word,

keeps his word and pays you back


12

逢人只说三分话,不可全抛一片心

He who speaks but three words

should not throw his heart away


13

大多数人口中的”怎么了”只是满足好奇心

并没有要帮助你的意思

What's wrong with most people is to satisfy curiosity,

not to help you


14

打破别人的喜悦这是一件很没礼貌的事情

你们应该都有体会

It's rude to break someone's joy.

You all know that


15

去别人家做客,别人让你看电视的时候

你就该走了

When you're a guest in someone's home and

they tell you to watch TV

You should go


16

不熟的人别乱开玩笑,熟的人也是

Don't joke around with people you don't know well


17

不要对自己关系好的异性朋友下手

Don't prey on your best friends of the opposite sex



18

请对待服务行业人员态度好点

Please treat the service personnel

with good attitude


19

初次见面时要努力记住别人的名字

Try to remember people's names

when you first meet them


20

不说狠话,不做软事

Don't say hard words

don't do soft things

21

目光放远一点,你就不伤心了

Look ahead, and you won't be sad


22

Don't believe what women chasing men layer yarn and so on


23

有了男朋友之后,不要断绝所有朋友联系

因为最后当你男朋友丢了

你会发现你一无所有了

Don't cut off all your friends

when you have a boyfriend


Because finally

when your boyfriend lost

You will find that you have nothing left


24

永远不要对一个人的努力嗤之以鼻

Never sneer at one's efforts


25

该撕逼就撕逼,别委屈自己

If you fight, don't hurt yourself


26

三人行,一人系鞋带,你俩等他一下

In a threesome, one ties his shoes

You two wait for him


27

失去一个人最有效的方法就是走的太近

The best way to lose someone

is to get too close


28

发脾气之前,先想想有没有人惯着你

Before you lose your temper,

think about whether anyone is spoiling you


29

别有事没事跟别人诉苦

这世上能感同身受的人很少

大部分人听听也就烦了

还有少部分人会当做笑柄到处去宣传

Don't have anything to complain about

There are very few people in the world who can empathize


Most people get bored

There are still a few people will be used as a joke

everywhere to promote


30

在最愤怒时忍住最伤对方的那句话

Hold back the words that hurt the person

in the heat of the moment