說到成功這個話題，我想每個人都有每個人的定義，但是我們每個人都渴望成功的，有些人認為賺到了一大筆錢就是成功，也有些人認為健康就是成功，還有人認為完好的家庭好好生活就是成功，有一部分人認為有事業才算是成功. 成功一詞，是所有人前進的目標。
我們來看看成功的幾個重要特徵，你會怎麼選呢？
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我們來看看牛津詞典對成功的定義：
Success is the fact that you have achieved sth that you want and have been trying to do or get; the fact of becoming rich or famous or of getting a high social position
成功是指你已經達到了你想要的，並且一直在努力去做或得到的東西；成為有錢人或名人，或獲得一個很高的社會地位的事實
在當代社會，可悲的是社會價值觀過於統一，金錢成為唯一衡量標準，很多人失去了鮮活的情緒和生活,也迷失了自己的位置和方向
In the contemporary society, it is sad that the social values are too unified, money is the only measure, many people have lost their fresh emotions and lives, and also lost their position and direction
我們去判斷一個人是否成功，不能只去看金錢，地位等這些表面的榮光，而應該去看他的生活狀態和生活質量，就是說看她生活的健康不健康，快樂不快樂，幸福不幸福
We can't judge a person's success only by money, status and other superficial glory, but by his life state and quality, that is to say, the health, happiness and unhappiness of her life
看她對自己對他人，對社會有沒有做出什麼積極的貢獻，獲得有沒有價值和意義，如果她健康，快樂， 幸福，對他人，對社會有切實的貢獻，他就應該是成功的，人生也是一個成功的人生！
See if she has made any positive contribution to others and the society, and whether it has value and significance to gain. If she is healthy, happy and happy, and has practical contribution to others and the society, he should be successful, and life is also a successful life!
我搜集了很多關於成功的定義，我們來一起分享一下他們對成功的定義，看看是否符合自己內心的標準:
Ø英國戲劇家、詩人莎士比亞曾作過這樣的闡釋：成功“就是一個人為追求他的理想而不斷獲得道德、學識、才幹去發展到能夠利用機會使社會人類進一步的那種表現”。
Shakespeare, a British dramatist and poet, once explained that success "is the kind of performance that a person constantly obtains morality, knowledge and ability to develop to be able to make use of the opportunity to further human beings in society in order to pursue his ideal".
成功的方式從來只有一種，就是以自己喜歡的方式度過這一生
There is only one way to succeed, which is to spend the life in the way you like.
成功就是你在不經意間想到自己人生的某個片段，從而嘴角微微上揚，默默給自己點了個贊，覺得自己是個還不錯的人。那個片段，就是你的成功
Success is that you inadvertently think of a certain segment of your life, so that the corner of your mouth slightly rises, silently praise yourself, and feel that you are a good person. That segment is your success
卡耐基認為成功是幫助個體改變自己的不良習慣，調整行為模式。如果有足夠自信，那麼每個人都能成功。
Carnegie believes that success is to help individuals change their bad habits and adjust their behavior patterns. If you have enough confidence, everyone can succeed.
如此看來，成功，不在於一個人達到了一個什麼目的，獲得了一個什麼東西，取得了一個什麼位置
In this way, success does not lie in what goal a person has achieved, what he has achieved, what position he has achieved
更重要的是，在於他經歷了一種什麼樣的生活，他擁有了一個什麼樣的心態，保持了一個什麼樣的心情，表現出了一種什麼樣的姿態，得到了一種什麼樣的感受，他對自己、對他人、對社會發揮了一種什麼樣的作用，造成了一種什麼樣的影響，等等。
More importantly, what kind of life he has experienced, what kind of mentality he has, what kind of mood he has maintained, what kind of attitude he has shown, what kind of feeling he has gained, what kind of feeling he has What kind of effect has been exerted on oneself, others and society, what kind of influence has been caused, etc.
如果他的存在和努力是正面的、積極的、有價值有意義的，那就可以說他是成功的；否則，就是失敗的，最起碼，也不能算是成功。
If his existence and efforts are positive, positive, valuable and meaningful, then it can be said that he is successful; otherwise, it is a failure, at least not a success.
每一個人都在努力追求成功、避免失敗。但是，當我們把失敗拒之門外的時候，往往我們也很難獲得真正的成功。畢竟，沒有失敗過的成功會顯得沒有太多份量。
那麼如何才能成功呢？So how can we succeed?
1.確立自己的人生目標，並且專注這個目標去奮鬥
Set your own life goal and focus on it
我們每個人的一生總會追求一些目標，我們都應該根據自身狀況和愛好去設定一個目標，因為未來的生活一定是由我們自己決定的，真正改變自己的也永遠是自己。
Each of us will always pursue some goals in our life. We should set a goal according to our own conditions and hobbies, because the future life must be decided by ourselves, and what really changes us is always ourselves.
不要受現實社會的干擾，不必因為別人的忽悠而一窩蜂湧向“風口”，不必因為別人外表的光鮮而自卑或自暴自棄，更不必因為短時間內還沒有看到回報就放棄自己的路。
Don't be disturbed by the real society, don't rush to the "wind vent" because of other people's deception, don't feel inferior or despotic because of other people's appearance, let alone give up your own way because you haven't seen the return in a short time.
2.珍惜當下的時間，無論何時都要堅持
Cherish the present time and stick to it at all times
把時間利用起來才能發揮真正的價值，不能把我們珍貴的時間浪費在沒有用的事情上，去做些自己想做的事情，如果你真的投入其中，你會發現時間不夠用
Use time to realize its real value. You can’t waste our precious time on useless things. Do what you want to do. If you really invest in it, you will find that time is not enough.
這個時代從不辜負人，它只是磨鍊我們，磨鍊每一個試圖改變自己命運的平凡人。”只要時間還在行走，每一個人就可以嘗試更多的東西，在有合適機會的時候就能起飛
"This time never fails to live up to humans. It just tempers us and tempers every ordinary person who tries to change their destiny." As long as time is still walking, everyone can try more things, and when there is a suitable opportunity, take off
3.有一個正能量的朋友圈，和有一個樂觀積極的心態
Have a positive circle of friends, and have an optimistic and positive attitude
精簡自己的朋友圈，老是打牌賭博等負能量的朋友，趕緊離開，好讓自己以更好的狀態去迎接未來，專注於要做的事情時，我們才會發現自己變得越來越好。
Simplify your circle of friends, always playing cards, gambling and other negative energy friends, and leave quickly, so that we can meet the future in a better state, and focus on what we need to do, we will find ourselves getting better and better.
有時想想，所謂成功，其實就像幸福一樣，並沒有什麼公認的、具體的、統一的標準，而似乎完全在於自己的感覺和表現。一件事情，你幹成了，就是成功的；沒幹成，就是失敗的。或者，儘管一件事情還沒有幹成，但它卻為自己積累了經驗，總結了教訓，增長了智慧，鍛鍊了才幹，且為接下來的走向成功，奠定了基礎，這非但不能算是失敗，而且也可以算作是另一種成功。這就是失敗是成功之母的由來。
其實只要每個人根據自己的目標，不斷地去奮鬥，體現出自我的價值，無論結局如何其實你都是成功的人。而成功後你會覺得成功路上的考驗都是值得的，你也會笑著向它們致敬！”
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