讓這4句話影響你的人生


讓這4句話影響你的人生

A youngster went to visit an old wise man.

He asked the wise man, "How can I become a person who can make myself and others happy?"

一位少年去拜訪一位年長的智者。

他問智者:“我怎麼才能成為一個既讓自己愉快也讓別人愉快的人呢?”



The wise man looked at him and said. "My son, you're one in a thousand to have such an aspiration at this age. I give you four sentences. The first sentence is to regard you as others. Can you explain its meaning? ”

智者看著他說:“孩子,在你這個年齡有這樣的願望,已經很難得了。我送你四句話。第一句話是,把自己當成別人。你能說說這句話的含義嗎?”



The youngster replied, " That is to say, when I feel distressed, regard myself as others, so that I will reduce the distress naturally; when I'm ecstatic , regard myself as others, the ecstasy will become placid."

少年回答說:“這句話是說,在我感到痛苦時,就把自己當成別人,這樣痛苦就自然減輕了;當我欣喜若狂時,把自己當成別人,那種狂喜也會變得平和。”



The wise man nodded slightly and went on, " The second is to regard others as you."

智者微微點頭,接著說:“第二句話,把別人當成自己。”



The youngster thought for a while and said," In this way you may truly sympathize with others' misfortune, understand the others' requirements and give them proper help when they need."

少年沉思一會兒,說:“這樣就可以真正同情別人的不幸,理解別人的需求,在別人需要時給予恰當的幫助。”



The wise man's eyes glowing, he continued, "The third is to regard others as others."

智者兩眼發光,繼續說道:“第三句話,把別人當成別人。”



The boy said." It means that we should fully respect each person's independence and can never infringe their core territory in any case."

少年說:“這句話是說,要充分尊重每個人的獨立性,在任何情況下都不可侵犯他人的核心領地。”



The wise man laughed. " Very well. The fourth is to regard you as yourself. It is too hard for you to understand, so keep it for you to taste it slowly in future."

智者哈哈大笑說:“很好。第四句話是,把自己當成自己。這句話理解起來太難了,留著你以後慢慢品位吧。“


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