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Clever Ways to Deal With Rude People
對付粗魯的人的好方法
There are always situations where you may face dealing with rude people. Most of the time you can just let it go or answer them back, but those things are sometimes not possible if you’re dealing with a customer, a client, your boss or someone who works with you. You have to learn how to deal with those people and here are some tips on how to do it:
人們總是有機會碰到必須對付粗魯的人的情況。在絕大多數時候，當你遇見了粗魯的人，你只需把它忘了或者屌回去，不過有時候你不可能採取上述的做法，尤其當你遇見的粗魯的人是你的一個顧客或者一個客戶或者你的老闆或者一個與你共事的人的時候，你就不可能採取那些做法。你必須懂得如何對付那些人。本文為你提供了一些如何處理這種事的建議。
1.Remain calm
1.保持冷靜。
3.Don’t expect rude people to change
3.不要指望那些粗魯的人會改變自己的這種做法
There are certain people in this world who enjoy behaving rudely. Some don’t understand that they are rude and some just enjoy bullying others. It is only important that you realize you can’t change others. You can only change your behavior and your expectations of them.
在這個世界上存在一些人喜歡做出粗魯的舉止。有些人無法理解為什麼他們會喜歡錶現出粗魯的言行、為什麼他們會喜歡欺負別人。小編認為你不必糾結於這些問題，你只需認識到你無法改變其他人就行了。你能夠改變的只有你自己的行為和你對這些粗魯的人曾經懷有的期待。
4.Be obxtive about the situation
4.你要對這種事保持客觀的態度
There are times that some person is not being rude, but you could be emotional and interpreting the whole thing in the wrong way. Sometimes they are rude because it is their personality. Many of those rude people are just trying to protect themselves from being hurt, it is their defense mechanism.
某些人在某些時候並不會表現出粗魯的言行，但是當你遭遇這些人的粗魯對待的時候，你可能會因為一時的情感波動而錯誤解讀這件事、認為這些人就一直都是舉止粗魯的。小編想說：他們有時候表現粗魯是因為他們的性格所致。他們當中的許多人只是為了保護他們自己不受傷害才這樣的，是他們的自我防衛的機制導致了這些粗魯的言行。
5.Choose the way you are going to respond to rudeness
5.選擇好你要回應這些粗魯言行的方式
First of all, you don’t have to do anything at all. Sometimes silence can be the best cure for everything. If you’re in a middle of a conversation you can ignore their comments or just act indifferently.
首先，你其實不必採取任何舉動來做出回應。有時候保持沉默能解決所有問題。如果你在和別人的交談中遭到了某些人的粗魯對待，你可以採取無視他們的粗魯言論的做法，或者，你只需表現出一副無所謂的樣子就可以了。
6.Try to understand why someone is rude
6.試著去理解一個人為什麼會表現出粗魯的言行的原因
8.Keep your dignity
維護你的尊嚴
No matter how rude someone is and no matter what they say, don’t let them make you feel lesser about yourself and who you are. Don’t give up on your values and beliefs. This person is not worth it.
不管某人多麼粗魯，也不管他們對你說了些什麼，請不要讓他們成功使你感到自己確實挺糟糕或者看扁自己。不要放棄自己的價值觀和信念。這種人不值得你這樣做。
9.Don’t be affected by them
9.不要受這些人的影響
If you associate yourself with negative people, you will feel negative. Rude people function on a certain level of negativity where you can find pride, anger and fears. If their behaviour affects you, it means that you’re on their level and they can harm you.
如果你把你和那些給你帶來負面情緒的人扯到一起，那麼你會變得消極。你可以從這些粗魯的人表現出的某些粗魯的行為發現他們的傲慢、憤怒和恐懼。如果他們的行為影響到了你，這意味著你就和他們處於同一個層次了，所以他們的這種粗魯的對待會傷害到你。
However, if you learn to be at a higher level than they are, you won’t be affected by their words and behaviors and you won’t feel violated and attacked even if they try to bring you down.
但是，如果你在心態上比他們的層次更高，你就不會被他們的言語和行為所影響。在這種狀態下，即便他們試圖擊垮你，你也不會覺得自己被侮辱了或者受到了攻擊。
