When you have a problem in your relationship with someone, ask yourself if you are realising your own mistake in it. Also check if you really understand why the other person is behaving in the way he or she does. When you understand this you can change yourself instead of expecting the other one to change.
当你与某人的关系出现问题时,问问你自己你是否意识到自己的错误。也检查你是否真的理解对方为何有如此的行为表现。当你理解这一点时,你可以改变自己,而不是期待他人改变。
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