如果你问我该怎么变得漂亮或更吸引人一些，我会告诉你，做好自己 。“做自己”有一种静默的张力，看起来让人舒服。但是如果这一条在你身上不起效，那么你需要做一个更好的自己。
If you ask me how to look more attractive or beautiful, in all probability, the first thing you’d hear is to just be yourself, isn’t it?But is that really working for you? Being yourself is the easiest way to looking gorgeous. But if it’s not working for you so far, well, then you just need to be a better you!
我们身边都有一些外表普通的姑娘，但极具魅力，不论男女都会被其倾倒，更不乏众多的追求者。外在美不仅仅只在于漂亮的脸蛋和匀称的身材，更多是你与世界建立联系的一种方式。
You may have come across several girls who you perceive as unattractive who still get a lot of attention and adoration from the opposite sex. External beauty isn’t all about a pretty face or a great body. It has more to do with how you feel within, and how you project yourself to the world.
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＃一个状态良好的面容(相由心生)
我们的脸是第一个被人注意到的地方，如果你想看起来美，就要全方位地拯救她。吃健康的食物，多喝水，多运动，妥善处理痘痘，会让你的第一印象大大加分。
A healthy face
It’s been said that a person’s face is the mirror of their soul.
Your face is almost always the first thing that people notice about you. So if you want to look beautiful, you need to learn to take care of it. Eat healthy, drink lots of water and work out, you’ll start to look a lot healthier and youthful within a matter of days. And if you have a few nagging issues like acne or stress lines, try to take care of it. It’ll definitely make a big difference to your appearance.
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＃恰到好处的表情
漂亮的脸蛋当然很好，但是表情会决定这张脸好看或无聊。你微笑的方式，全心全意地笑嘻嘻，眨眨眼，盯着人说话，这些看似微小的举动可以区分出美与平庸。
一个对自己的外表不太自信的姑娘，如果在表情和形体姿态上驾驭得不错也是一个大美人。给大家一个陈旧但是有效的方法，站在镜子面前尝试一些如眨眼、微笑的表情（这些都是可以训练到自己满意为止）。即便，我们的喜怒哀乐会受到周遭的影响，也不妨碍尝试我们更好地表达自己，顺便美美哒。
Expressions
A pretty face looks good. But your expressions, well, that’s what makes a face beautiful or boring. The way you smile, laugh wholeheartedly, wink or stare at someone while talking to them can make the difference between a plain jane and a beautiful and charming girl.
Even a girl who doesn’t believe she’s beautiful can transform herself into a gorgeous woman just by learning to play with her facial expressions and her gestures. As corny as it sounds, stand in front of the mirror and try a few expressions, be it a wink or a smile. After all, even our expressions are influenced by others around us. So why not try and express yourself better, and look prettier at the same time?
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＃营造一个温暖友好的氛围
你身上散发出来的气质会一直包裹着你，这是你不能伪造的。你有没有过这样的体验，只是安静地坐在别人身旁，就觉得很尴尬不舒服，或是见到某人第一次的时候就不喜欢她。
另一方面，有些人你在第一次见面时，就觉得相见恨晚，特别投缘。当你刚认识一些人时，无论你是否意识到，你的气场和他的气场都是相互交融的，消极的一方也会把负能量传递出去。以温暖的、积极的和友好的态度丰盈你的思想，当你感觉到积极的时候，你的积极性会为你争取更多时间。
A warm and friendly aura
Your aura is something that envelopes you all the time, and you can’t fake it. Have you ever sat next to someone only to feel really uncomfortable and awkward all of a sudden for no reason at all? Or have you disliked someone the very first time you spoke to them?
On the other hand, did you feel really comfortable around someone as soon as you said hello for the first time? When you meet someone, whether you realize it or not, your aura intermingles with their aura that’s around them, and if one of you feel negative, it rubs on to the other person. Fill your mind and thoughts with warm positivity and a friendly attitude. When you feel positive, your positivity will draw others to you all the time.
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＃得体的着装
你的穿着优雅高级，但也要显得毫不费力。如果你找不到自己的方向，可以尝试学习一些和自己身材结构相似的名人穿衣风格，毕竟人靠衣装。你的穿着在形象上会给人很大的印象分。
Clothing and attire
Dress appropriately without appearing like you’re trying too hard. If you’re lost and don’t know where to start, take a look at a celebrity who looks similar to you or has the same body structure.Or you can just follow UniqueMefashion .The way you dress plays a big part in the way you’re perceived by others.
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＃端正你的姿态
走路说话举止像个淑女，走路的时候抬头挺胸收腹，会让你看起来很优雅。无论你身在何处，你都会引起异性的注意和喜欢。人们发现女孩迷人，因为女孩与他们有很大的不同。用优雅方式把自己的女性气质展现出来，平静而惊艳。
Your poise
Walk, talk and behave like a lady. If you stand tall, walk gracefully and look elegant wherever you are, you’ll definitely be noticed and liked by the opposite sex. Remember, guys find girls fascinating because girls are so different from them. Show off your femininity with grace, and you’ll sweep every guy off the floor with your beauty and poise.
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＃选一款适合自己的香水
女性化气质浓烈的香水，可以让从你身边走过的男生回头率高到爆表。作为两脚兽，气味在性吸引上扮演了很重要的角色，一个适合自己气质的香水也会让你整体形象大大加分，当你想让与你约会的男生记住你的适合，你可以尝试轻描淡写地甩甩秀发，用香气扑倒他。
Fragrances
Feminine fragrances can make a guy’s neck involuntarily spin and crack in a second even as you just walk past him. As humans, smell plays a big part in the game of attraction, and if you smell wonderful and leave a waft of the perfect womanly silage behind you, it’s something no guy can forget, be it on a date or when you try to impress a guy as you walk past him!
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＃发型 发型 发型
一个完美的发型可以让你的脸部轮廓变得更清晰，达到扬长避短的功效。要说什么可以让你马上改头换面，大概只有发型了。尝试和专业可靠的发型师沟通，改变你的发型，也可以看看那些和自己脸部轮廓、气质差不多的名人发型作为参考，一个完美的发型是可以创造奇迹的，特别是当你想用一头秀发来吸引男神的时候。
Hairstyle
A perfect haircut can accentuate your facial features and turn you into a glamorous doll in a few hours. Experiment with your hair, talk to your stylist or take a look at a few celebrity hairstyles for inspiration. You may assume it doesn’t play a big part, but you’ll be surprised at the difference it can make. A perfect cut can do wonders and make you look a lot more beautiful, especially after you learn to carelessly flick your hair when the guy you’re trying to impress is around!
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＃减掉多余的肉肉
你的身体本来美呆了，但是多余的脂肪会把你真实的样子，隐藏在层层堆积的肉肉后面。太瘦是不会有吸引力的，应该储备匀称身材所需要的脂肪，让你看起来惊艳，也可以完美展示你凹凸有致的曲线，还能显年轻，一举多得。
Lose those excess pounds
Your body looks best the way it’s been created, and all those excess calories you eat only hides the real you under several layers of fat. Being too skinny is definitely unattractive, but maintaining the perfect amount of body fat would make you look more beautiful, help you show off your curves in all the right places, and make you look several years younger too.
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＃用心梳妆打扮
在出门前可以多花点时间对着镜子装点下自己，这并不是一件浪费时间的事情，化点妆，涂点口红，刷点腮红，可以让你看起来更迷人，当然你自己也会感觉的更自信。
Glam up
It’s not silly to spend a while everyday to take care of your appearance before you step out. If it helps you feel more beautiful, use cosmetics and work with different brushes and colors. You’ll feel more glamorous, more confident and happier with yourself.
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＃不要苛求完美，要开心
觉得自己不够好的想法很容易让我们产生不安情绪，要接受我们每个人都有不完善之处的事实。如果有让我们感觉不尽人意的事情，我们一定要尽快处理解决掉。毕竟，美是一种心态。如果你不觉得美丽，你怎么能自信地向世界表达你的美？ 同时也要快乐开朗，你的快乐会传染给你周围的世界，同时也让你更加美丽和闪耀光芒。
Don’t feel imperfect
So what makes you feel insecure or imperfect? All of us have our own little niggles that make us feel less than desirable. Have those issues fixed or get rid of it. After all, beauty is a state of mind. And if you don’t feel beautiful, how can you ever project your beauty with confidence to the rest of the world? Be happy and cheerful, and your infectious happiness will make you shine with beautiful radiance.
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＃睡好美容觉
八小时的睡眠对于很多人来说已经是一件付不起的奢侈品了。但是想变美的你还是尝试多睡一些。睡眠不足会让你感觉压力很大并且脾气暴躁、反应迟钝，当然也不那么美了。相反休息好了，容光焕发，精神满面，看起来就对生活充满热情。
Get your beauty sleep
Eight hours of sleep is a luxury that few can afford these days, but you need to try to make time for good sleep. Lack of sleep and stress makes you grumpy, sluggish and unattractive. On the other hand, you’d look a lot better and feel more energetic and enthusiastic about life when you’re well rested.
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＃内在美
与主流观点的刻板印象不同的是，内在美并不是丑姑娘尝试说服自己忽略容貌、让自己更自信的安慰说法，她确实是存在的，并且可以区分出美与丑。正所谓所有注意力的吸引都是始于颜值，会在这里暂停一秒钟，接下来就是要看才华和内涵了。
Inner beauty
Contrary to popular belief, inner beauty isn’t something ugly people talk about to convince themselves that they’re beautiful. Inner beauty exists, and it’s the only thing that makes a person beautiful or unattractive. An attractive face could catch a person’s attention for a second, but beyond that first second, it’s a person’s inner beauty that makes all the difference.
所以，美是一种心态，毫无保留的把你的美都展现出来，不要隐藏你认为不吸引人的东西，即便脸上真的有不好看的伤痕也不要在意这样的瑕疵，所以旁人也不会在意，这就是你和世界相处的方式，大方安静而有张力。只要你相信你是美美哒，你就能一直感受自己的美。
You see, beauty is a state of mind. Show yourself off, and don’t hide something that you perceive as unattractive even if it’s a scar right across your face. People don’t care about your imperfections, it’s the way you project yourself that makes you beautiful.
It’s easy to feel gorgeous and look glamorous as long as you believe you’re all that and more.
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