在感情中沒有誰對誰錯，也沒有誰對不起誰，只有自我的一廂情願與不知珍惜的後悔罷了。
No one is right or wrong in their feelings, no one is sorry for anyone, only their wishful thinking and regret that they do not know how to cherish.
人生沒有那麼多的假設，現實是一個一個真實的耳光，打在你的臉上，喊疼毫無意義，唯有一往無前。
There are not so many hypotheses in life. The reality is a real slap in the face. It's meaningless to shout pain, but never move forward.
十幾歲的時候想做一個任性的人，遇到挫折等待那個會把糖果遞過來，並輕聲安慰你的人。
二十幾歲的時候知道冷暖自知，關心身邊的人，不再無理取鬧。當這些已成為習慣，時間讓我們成為更好的人，也成為更冷漠的人。
我們好像變得越成熟，就越喜歡沉默。
When you are a teenager, you want to be a wayward person. When you meet frustration, you wait for the person who will pass the candy to you and quietly comfort you.
When I was in my twenties, I knew I was cold and warm. I cared about the people around me, and I stopped making unreasonable noises. When these have become habits, time makes us better people and more indifferent people.
The more mature we seem, the more we like silence.
有些人總是這樣，他們不會和你說分手，但是他們會開始不理你，冷暴力你，然後一次一次讓你失望，讓你先開口。周圍的人都覺得是你先放了手，其實我們都明白，這段感情先放手的是誰。哪有那麼多感同身受，有些人沒經歷過是不會懂的。
Some people are always like this. They won't break up with you, but they will start ignoring you, brutalizing you, and disappointing you one time at a time, so that you can speak first. People around you feel that you let go first. In fact, we all know who let go first in this relationship. Where there are so many empathies, some people do not experience it will not understand.
當你熬夜想他的時候，他可能已經睡了，他的夢裡沒有你，等他醒來他也不會愛你。
When you stay up late thinking about him, he may have gone to sleep, his dream without you, and he will not love you when he wakes up.
可能，最可悲的是一個涉世未深的女孩，在情竇初開的年紀，遇到一個被世俗傷害過的男生，她努力的想要喜歡他，卻還是被他拒之門外，他說，我已經過了感動的年紀了，也不會再說什麼愛情了。
Perhaps the most tragic thing is a girl who is not deeply involved in the world. At the beginning of her love affair, she meets a boy who has been hurt by the secular world. She tries hard to like him, but she is still rejected by him. He says that I have passed the touching age and will not say anything about love any more.
如果能在夏天的傍晚時，急匆匆扒掉一碗飯後換上漂亮的連衣裙，隨後去見一個喜歡的人。和他一起走在安靜的巷子裡，或是熱鬧的夜市裡，那時候一定連晚風都是無比溫柔的。
If you can pick up a bowl of rice in a hurry and put on a beautiful dress in the summer evening, then go to meet someone you like. Walking with him in a quiet alley or a busy night market, the evening wind must be very gentle at that time.
你那句沒說出口的再見，時間替你說了。
Your unspoken goodbye, time has spoken for you.
正因為不能稱心如意，人世才有意思。
Just because you can't be satisfied, the world is interesting.
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