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Everyone has that period in which they find those who are close to them start to seem annoying .
每個人都會經歷這樣的時期：發現身邊那些親近的人開始變得有點煩了。
You suddenly realized that they've always been talking and talking.
你會突然意識到，長久以來他們就一直不停地在說啊說。
They never stopped.
他們從來就沒有停過。
Some of us get angry with them, thinking they are trying too hard to intervene in our lives.
我們中的有些人，會開始變得憤怒，覺得他們對我們的生活介入太多。
But don't.
但是，請不要憤怒。
Only those who really care about you will bother saying so much to you.
只有那些真正關心我們的人才會費勁對我們說這麼多。
It's just that maybe they don't know the right way to put it.
只是，他們可能並不知道正確的相處辦法。
Some of them push too hard because they care too much.
他們中有些人逼得太緊，那是因為他們太在乎。
Some of them speak too much because they worry about you too much.
他們中的有些人說得太多，那是因為他們太擔心你。
They do this because they love you.
他們這麼做，都是因為愛你。
So don't push them away.
所以，不要將他們拒於千里之外。
Just find a way to let them know what you truly want.
去找一個辦法告訴他們你真的想要的是什麼吧。
And let them grow with you.
並且去讓他們和你一起成長。
That will make both of you happy.
那會讓你們雙方都過得幸福。
Believe me.
相信我。
詞彙積累：
annoy[əˈnɔɪ]
v.
使惱怒;使生氣;打擾;騷擾
第三人稱單數： annoys 現在分詞： annoying 過去式： annoyed 過去分詞： annoyed
動詞
1
使惱怒；使生氣
to make sb slightly angry
[VN] His constant joking was beginning to annoy her.
他不停地開玩笑，已開始惹她生氣。
It really annoys me when people forget to say thank you.
有人連謝謝都忘記說時我確實感到不愉快。
[VN to inf] It annoys me to see him getting ahead of me.
我看見他領先於我就心裡不痛快。
2
[VN] 打擾；騷擾
to make sb uncomfortable or unable to relax
同義詞： bother
He swatted a fly that was annoying him.
他猛力拍打一隻攪得他心煩的蒼蠅。
經典例句：
Try making a note of the things which annoy you
試著把煩心事寫下來。
It annoyed me that I didn't have time to do more reading
騰不出時間多看會兒書讓我很煩。
It just annoyed me to hear him going on.
聽他說個不停，真讓我不堪其煩。
If you annoy me much more, I'll box your ears.
如果你再打擾我，我將打你耳光。
I was deliberately trying to annoy him.; I got him angry on purpose.
我故意氣他一下。
I realise now that the things which used to niggle and annoy me justdon't really matter
我現在意識到那些曾令我煩惱不快的事情其實無關緊要。
Does it annoy you if others do things less well than you would, or don't seem to try hard enough?
如果別人不如你能幹，或者似乎不夠努力，你會很生氣嗎？
intervene [ˌɪntərˈviːn]
v.
出面;介入;插嘴;打斷(別人的話);阻礙;阻撓;干擾
第三人稱單數： intervenes 現在分詞： intervening 過去式： intervened 過去分詞： intervened
派生詞： intervention n.
armed/military intervention
武裝 / 軍事幹涉
動詞
[V] ~ (in sth)
出面；介入
to become involved in a situation in order to improve or help it
The President intervened personally in the crisis.
總統親自出面處理這場危機。
She might have been killed if the neighbours hadn't intervened.
要不是鄰居介入，她可能會沒命了。
The situation calmed down when police intervened.
警方干預後，局勢平息下來。
The Government is doing nothing to intervene in the crisis.
政府沒有采取任何行動對這次危機進行干預。
The security forces had to intervene to prevent the situationworsening
安全部隊不得不介入，以防止局勢進一步惡化。
He would ask Congress to intervene and head off a strike
他將要求國會進行干預，防止發生罷工。
Normally the Vatican does not intervene in the internal affairs of religious orders except in cases of disputed elections.
除非涉及一些有爭議的選舉，羅馬教廷一般不會干預各教派的內部事務。
The existence of more than one agency with power to intervene canlead to children
falling through the net.
多個部門都可干預的事實可能會導致一些孩子被遺漏。
If there were a breakdown of law and order, the army might betempted to intervene.
如果法治被踐踏，軍隊可能會介入。
2
插嘴；打斷（別人的話）
to interrupt sb when they are speaking in order to say sth
[V speech] ‘But,’ she intervened, ‘what about the others?’
“但是，”她插嘴說，“其他的怎麼辦呢？”
Hattie intervened and told me to stop it.
哈蒂打斷我，叫我停下來。
'I've told you he's not here,' Irena intervened.
“我告訴你了他不在這裡，”伊雷娜插話說。
[also V]
3
[V] 阻礙；阻撓；干擾
to happen in a way that delays sth or prevents it from happening
They were planning to get married and then the war intervened.
他們正準備結婚，不巧卻因爆發戰事而受阻。
The South African mail boat arrived on Friday mornings unless bad weather intervened.
除非受惡劣天氣干擾,南非郵船一般在星期五上午抵達。
I pray that death may not intervene to prevent our meeting with my darling children.
我祈禱死亡不要阻撓我們與我親愛的孩子們見一面。
4
[V] (formal) 介於…之間
to exist between two events or places
I saw nothing of her during the years that intervened.
這期間的幾年中我根本沒有見過她。
bother
[ˈbɑːðər]
v.
花費時間精力(做某事);使(某人)煩惱(或擔憂、不安);給(某人)造成麻煩(或痛苦);打擾;搭話煩擾
n.
麻煩;困難;令人煩惱的情況(或事物、人)
int.
表示對某事或某人煩惱
第三人稱單數： bothers 複數： bothers 現在分詞： bothering 過去式： bothered 過去分詞： bothered
verb
1
(often used in negative sentences and questions 常用於否定句和疑問句) ~ (with/about sth)
花費時間精力（做某事）
to spend time and/or energy doing sth
[V] ‘Shall I wait?’ ‘No, don't bother’.
“要我等一下嗎？”“不，別費事了。”
It's not worth bothering with (= using) an umbrella─the car's just outside.
不必打傘——汽車就停在外面。
I don't know why I bother! Nobody ever listens!
我不知道我幹嗎要浪費時間！根本沒人聽！
I don't know why you bother with that crowd (= why you spend time with them) .
我弄不懂你為什麼和那夥人浪費時間。
[V to inf] He didn't even bother to let me know he was coming.
他甚至連通知都沒通知我他要來。
[V -ing] Why bother asking if you're not really interested?
如果你不是真的感興趣，幹嗎費口舌打聽呢？
2
~ sb (about/with sth)
使（某人）煩惱（或擔憂、不安）；給（某人）造成麻煩（或痛苦）
to annoy, worry or upset sb; to cause sb trouble or pain
[VN] The thing that bothers me is…
讓我感到不安的是…
You don't sound too bothered about it.
看來你並不十分擔心這事。
I don't want to bother her with my problems at the moment.
我此刻不想讓她為我的事操心。
That sprained ankle is still bothering her (= hurting) .
她那扭傷的腳踝還在隱隱作痛。
‘I'm sorry he was so rude to you.’ ‘It doesn't bother me.’
“對不起，他對你太沒禮貌。”“沒關係。”
[VN that] Does it bother you that she earns more than you?
她比你掙的錢多，你是不是覺得不自在？
[VN to inf] It bothers me to think of her alone in that big house.
想到她孤零零地待在那所大房子裡，我便坐立不安。
3
[VN] 打擾；搭話煩擾
to interrupt sb; to talk to sb when they do not want to talk to you
Stop bothering me when I'm working.
我工作時別來煩我。
Let me know if he bothers you again.
他要是再攪擾你，就告訴我。
Sorry to bother you , but there's a call for you on line two.
很抱歉打擾你一下，二號線有你的電話。
be bothered (about sb/sth)
(especially BrE) 認為（某人或某事）重要；關心（某人或某事）
to think that sb/sth is important
I'm not bothered about what he thinks.
我不在乎他怎麼想。
‘Where shall we eat?’ ‘I'm not bothered.’ (= I don't mind where we go) .
“我們去哪裡吃飯？”“隨便。”
can't be bothered (to do sth)
（表示不想花時間精力做某事）
used to say that you do not want to spend time and/or energy doing sth
I should really do some work this weekend but I can't be bothered.
我這個週末真該做點事了，可我懶得做。
All this has happened because you couldn't be bothered to give me the message.
就是因為你嫌麻煩沒通知我，才出了這事。
not bother yourself/your head with/about sth
(especially BrE) 不為某事花費時間（或精力）；不操心
to not spend time/effort on sth, because it is not important or you are not interested in it
名詞：麻煩（或麻煩的事或人）
I hope I haven't been a bother.
希望我沒煩擾你。
You seem to have got yourself into a spot of bother .
你似乎讓自己遇上了點麻煩。
I don't want to put you to any bother (= cause you any trouble) .
我不想給你添亂子。
Don't go to the bother of tidying up on my account (= don't make the effort to do it) .
別為了我費事整理一番。
‘Thanks for your help!’ ‘It was no bother.’
“多謝你的幫助！”“沒什麼。”
Call them and save yourself the bother of going round.
給他們打個電話就免得你親自去了。
Bother! I've left my wallet at home.
真煩人！我把錢包落在家裡了。
Oh, bother him! He's never around when you need him.
哎呀，他可真討厭！需要他的時候從來都找不到他。
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