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cheating
關鍵詞
出軌
I, 25 years old, B, 160,45 Kg, non-solo, postgraduate student, boyfriend, 25 years old, 170,66 Kg, non-solo, UI designer, monthly salary 12K.
本人，25歲，B，160，45Kg，非獨，研究生在讀，男友，25歲，170，66Kg，非獨，UI設計師，月薪12K。
We are high school classmates, high school confession, freshman together. Super good to me, and I PU very high, has been different, the first time to each other.
我們是高中同學，高中表白，大一在一起。對我超好，而我PU很高，一直異地，第一次給彼此。
I graduated from university in 2015. My boyfriend is shenzhen. I have been a teacher in chongqing for 2 years.
15年大學畢業，男友深圳，我在重慶當老師2年。
At the end of 2015, I cheated on him and broke up with him for half a year. After getting along with A, I felt it was not suitable for him. He cut the scissors of the other party and found out that he was pregnant after breaking up. After my boyfriend knew,
15年底我出軌，分手半年，男友一直挽回。和A相處後感覺很不適合，對方剪子，分手後發現懷孕。
he asked his mother to accompany me to have an abortion. The whole family took good care of me.
男友知道後讓他媽媽陪我去流產，全家很照顧我。
my boyfriend is not always mind this matter, before said not to mind, but my heart has always been mind. Now more will provide emotional value, is the stone attribute changed?
男友是不是一直介意這件事，以前說不嫌棄，但是我內心一直介意。現更會提供情緒價值，是石頭屬性變了？
Boyfriend is highly motivated, study hard, active fitness. Now I often praise her boyfriend sweetly, occasionally because of the distance PU explosion.
男友上進心很強，努力學習，積極健身。現在我常嘴甜誇男友，偶爾因異地爆PU。
I will not send my photos in the moments before, only after several times. Feel high. Help is: can we get married?
之前不會在朋友圈發我照片，說幾次才發。感覺自己高攀。求助是：我們能順利進入婚姻嗎？
My mother has been against it for years. Now high emotional concentration, every day on the phone, shopping. Marriage used to come up, but now it doesn't.
我媽多年一直反對。現在感情濃度高，每天打電話，東西隨便買。以前會提結婚，現在不提。
I loved my boyfriend and was terrified of the hurt I had caused him. Shall I bring up the subject of marriage? Wait for your boyfriend to initiate? How can I get married without being retaliated by my boyfriend?
我很愛男友，也很害怕自己對男友造成的傷害讓他難以釋懷。結婚這件事需要我提嗎？還是等男友主動？我怎樣才能不被男友報復，順利進入婚姻。
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From the moment you cheat, your relationship with your boyfriend has gone cold. What's more, your cheating situation has become so serious that you're pregnant with a scissors man and have your boyfriend's parents accompany you to have an abortion. Even if you can by luck enter marriage with the other side, when MV of oneself after marriage is lowest and feebly resists, also can suffer the retaliation of the other side necessarily.
從出軌的那一刻起，你和男友的這段感情就已經涼透了。更何況你的出軌情節已經嚴重到了為竊偶剪子男懷孕，並讓男友家長陪你打胎的程度。即便你能僥倖與對方進入婚姻，在婚後自己MV最低無力反抗的時候，也必然會遭到對方的報復。
In this relationship, the problem is not so much that you are trying to outdo the other person, but that it is your infidelity that is causing the most damage to the relationship. If you are looking forward to a healthy and normal marriage, it is advisable to break up with your partner as soon as possible. Especially at present the other party has been unwilling to long choose to you, you jump on the results will not be as you wish.
在這段關係中，高攀對方並不是最嚴重的問題，你的出軌行為才是令這段感情萬劫不復的真正元兇。如果你還期待一段健康正常的婚姻，建議你趁早與對方分手。尤其目前對方已經不願再對你長擇，你貿然撲上去的結果更不會如你所願。
Finally, it's important to note that in the next relationship, the abortion experience should be at the height of the relationship and the next boyfriend to confess. Just in case it gets out in the future and blows up your PU again.
最後，要提醒你的是，在下一段感情中，墮胎的經歷要選在感情濃度最高時和下任男友坦白。以防未來這件事情敗露，再次爆掉你的PU。
