去迪士尼玩耍本是一件開開心心的事。但一位女遊客卻被熊孩子摸屁股，還遭遇男孩他媽辱罵加毆打的雙重暴擊....
7月14日下午5點左右，上海迪士尼樂園內，一名8歲的小男孩在走路過程中碰到（也有網友說是捏）一位姑娘的臀部。
姑娘說了小男孩幾句，結果男孩的媽媽立刻就炸了，對著姑娘又打又罵，辱罵之詞不堪入耳。
“你他X有妄想症吧！”
“長那個X樣，還摸你屁股？！”
“我兒子才8歲，就算摸你屁股又怎麼了？”
“你屁股沒給人摸過？”
無法想象，一個母親怎麼會當著自己孩子的面說出這樣的話！
網友對這個母親的處理方式也憤憤不平。
@協和產科馬良坤：家庭教育，女性的責任真的很大。攤上這樣的媽，堪憂呀。
@星月戀依：之所以有熊孩子是因為有垃圾家長。
@糊糊塗塗就很好：捱打的女孩一看就是很老實，不像是故意找茬，可能只是告訴家長一聲，家長只需要說句對不起就行的事情，非得這麼囂張跋扈引得罵聲一片。
以下是Global Times (Metro Shanghai)針對這個事件刊登的相關評論，配有中文翻譯喔。
Doting Chinese parents tend to do more harm than good
Even with the relaxing of the former one-child policy, Chinese parents continue to be known as doting and over-protective, sometimes even unreasonably and blindly so. A recent incident at Shanghai Disneyland particularly worries me.
儘管中國的獨生子女政策被取消了，但很多中國父母還在溺愛、過度保護自己的孩子，有些時候是毫無理由，甚至不理智的。上海迪士尼最近發生的一個事件讓我很擔憂。
According to a local report, a young woman was cursed and hit by a doting mother, whose little boy allegedly touched the young woman’s bottom. The case instantly went viral online as videos shot by bystanders were quickly posted on social media.
據報道，一位年輕的女子在迪士尼被一個小男孩摸了屁股，女孩想找孩子母親理論。結果這位溺愛孩子的母親不僅不道歉，反而還咒罵毆打女生。這位母親辱罵毆打這女生的場景很快被路人拍下來發到網上。這視頻在網上也迅速引起網友討論。
The young woman felt her bottom was groped and a young boy behind her was apparently the offender, though she was not sure whether the boy did so intentionally or just accidentally. She complained, and then the young boy’s mother became angry.
據報道，這位女子走著走著感覺屁股被人摸了，一回頭髮現一個男孩在她身後。她不確定男孩是故意的還是不小心碰到，於是找男孩母親理論。但她沒說幾句，這男孩的媽媽就炸毛了。
In the video, the mother shouted unbelievable words at the woman. “My son is only 8 years of age. Even if he touched you, what’s wrong with that?” “Why the fuss? Has no one ever touched your bottom before?” “Look at yourself! Does anyone actually have any interest in groping you?!”
視頻裡，這位母親用不堪入耳的言辭羞辱這位女生。“我兒子才8歲！就算他摸了你，又怎麼樣？” “你這麼小題大做幹嘛啊？你屁股之前就沒被人摸過？” “看看你自己的醜樣！誰會想摸你屁股啊？！”
These venomous words came out of the mother’s mouth, right in front of the child she wanted to protect. As if her strong words were not protective enough, she even resorted to physical force, and hit the other woman so forcefully that her glasses fell to the ground.
這些不堪入耳的話竟是出自一位母親之口，而且她想保護的兒子就在她跟前。她可能覺得言語的攻擊還不足以捍衛她兒子，竟上前用力打這女孩。女孩的眼鏡當場就被打落在地。
Another woman, apparently a relative of the irate mother and her son, clutched the young boy to her chest in a protective posture throughout the verbal and physical abuse by the mother. The mad Disneyland mommy would later be taken to a police station, where she admitted her wrongdoing and paid several hundred yuan as compensation to the other woman.
視頻裡還有一位女人，應該是這對母子的一個親戚。在這母親辱罵毆打女孩的整個過程中，她緊緊地把 “熊孩子” 護在懷裡。這位激動的母親最後被警察帶走了，她在警局裡承認自己言行不當，罰了幾百塊錢給那位女生作為補償。
I tend to think that the mother truly believed she was protecting her kid from any harm, thus fulfilling her duty as both mother and protector. This unreasonable behavior is worrisome, and I suspect there may be many other Chinese parents who’d do the same.
我覺得這母親可能認為她自己的言行完全沒錯，只是在履行母親和保護者的職責，讓她的兒子免受傷害。她這種不理智的行為讓我憂心。我懷疑很多中國父母遇到當時的情況，可能也會像她這麼做。
Unreasonable doting can only backfire. Such bad parenting is not protecting the child, but poisoning his/her mind, which can lead to the dangerous belief that there will be no consequences whatsoever no matter how bad his/her behavior is. With such parenting during the crucial years of a child’s mental development, there is little hope for any sense of accountability or responsible behavior as the child grows into adulthood.
不理智地溺愛孩子後患無窮。溺愛並不能保護自己的孩子，反而會毒害孩子的思想。長此以往，小孩會覺得無論他/她做了什麼，犯了多大錯，都不需承擔後果。如果父母在小孩心智發育的關鍵幾年溺愛孩子，那麼這個孩子長大後幾乎很難有責任心。
Therefore, education is urgently needed for good parenting. Parenthood preparedness education is still far from being sophisticated, even in materially affluent cities like Shanghai.
因此，我認為中國社會目前迫切需要針對家長的教育。就算在經濟最發達的中國城市比如上海，對於父母的親子教育依舊非常缺乏。
China’s doting parenting problem often extends to grand-parenting, as many two-income families have to rely on the help of grandparents when it comes to taking care of their child. Therefore, education is most effective when all family adults take part, and in this process grandparents and parents together can have meaningful discussions that smooth out intricate family chemistry.
中國家長的溺愛教育不僅限於父母，還有祖父母。很多雙職工夫妻工作繁忙，只能讓自己爸媽來帶小孩。只有全家都採用正確的育兒方法，這樣家裡的老人和夫妻才能良好溝通，緩和家庭的育兒分歧，讓家庭的氛圍更好。
原文: David Lee
翻譯：Wang Han
圖：Lu Ting、網絡
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