杜克大学 (Duke University)，简称为Blue Devil，坐落于美国北卡罗莱那州的达勒姆，是一所世界顶级的研究型大学。且为美国南部最好的私立大学，长期排名美国前十，其福库商学院曾超过哈佛商学院、芝加哥大学布斯商学院等，位居全美商学院首位。
01
Pay close attention. This is your life.
请留意生活中的细节，这是你的生活。
02
People always obsess over big decisions (e.g., which job/ position to accept), but really, tomorrow will always be a blur.
人们总是过于在意那些重要的决定（比如接受什么样的工作或者职位）但是实际上明天总是模糊的。
Plan with calmness, and then take the leap in the direction you think is best, knowing that there will rarely be a ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ but just a choice that leads to the next steps of life.
潜心规划，向你认为最好的目标大胆进发，要知道，很少有所谓完全“正确”或是“错误”的决定，因为它们只不过都是一个让你的生命进入下一个阶段的台阶。
03
You will get the more satisfaction about the relationships you form than from the things you acquire.
和你得到的实物相比，你可以从和别人建立的关系中获得更多的满足。
04
Respect people over job titles.
Everyone’s life has meaning.
尊重人比尊重头衔重要，
每个人的生命都有自己的价值。
05
Learn to reframe rejection.
学会重新认识拒绝。
Whether you’re working towards a leadership position or building a company, people will frequently tell you no.
当你努力想要成为领导者或者建立公司的时候，人们会经常告诉你“不行”。
Instead of seeing it as a shutdown, look at it as an opportunity to figure out why. Are you asking the wrong person? Have you not yet demonstrated you can handle the new responsibility? Over time, ‘no’ becomes just another opportunity to wait, learn and try again.
但是与其把这个NO视为事情的结束，不如把它看作一个寻找原因的机会：你是不是找了错误的人?你是不是还没有展现出你具有承担这个新责任的能力? 水滴石穿，NO会变成另一个等待，学习和再次尝试的机会。
06
Find a place where you can be challenged. Ask yourself: Am I proud of my work?
找到一个挑战自己的事业。问自己:“我是否为我的工作感到自豪”？
07
Don’t be afraid to diverge from your ‘plan’. Embrace ambiguity. The uncertain and what may appear high risk in relationships, jobs and life is usually very cool and worthwhile.
别害怕偏离你的计划,勇敢的接受不确定性。那些在你感情，工作和生活上表现出不确定性和高风险的东西往往都是很Cool而且很值得你尝试的。
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As you move forward into the next stage of your life, do not forget to stop and look back to discover the meaning of where you have been. That will help you better understand who you are, where you may be heading, and how you can get there.
当你进入你人生的新阶段，别忘了停下来回头看看，去发现你过去经历的意义。它可以让你更好的了解你是谁，将到哪里去，如何去那里。
09
Never confuse being educated with being smart.
别把受到教育这件事和聪明这件事混为一个概念。
10
Read outside of your chosen field, read broadly, read enthusiastically. Creativity is a necessary life skill and some inspirations will come from unexpected sources.
广泛的阅读，热情的阅读。创造力是一个必需的生存技能，而一些灵感就来自于你没有期待的来源。
11
Be true to yourself. Be willing to learn and to be coachable.
诚实的对待自己，愿意学习，愿意被指导。
12
Give back—serve from a sense of gratitude.
回报——用感恩的心，感恩身边的人和事。
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Stick with it，and keep moving.
坚持，坚持，再坚持。
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